I just got back from sending my bro to school. I have been sending and picking him up everyday seems I am on holiday. I saw so many kind of faces everyday, u know la the traffic in Subang.. I will have an ample time waiting for the traffic light to turn green. I enjoy myself by watching other people entertaining themselve in their car.. and there are some who even can sleep or maybe taking a nap.. For the past one week, I'll be seeing the same car in front of me and everytime I stop at this particular traffic light the same car will be at the back of me.. I don't know whether they realise it or not.. I tried to interpret this one couple by looking at my rear-view mirror..I am not sure whether they are husband and wife or father and daughter.. because the men looks older.. both of them have an unpleasant faces.. even when I saw them the next day.. it will be same.. The first time I thought there might be a fight between them or maybe an arguement.. but everyday is the same.. I suppose maybe they are too tired to go to office or they are like that..
Most of my friend told me that they are scared to approach me when they saw me the first time. It is because I have this kind of ' snorbish' look. Hurm well. I'm not those kind of gal who have that smiling face. I am still pleasant, its just ME.. ehehe.. even my mr other half told me that I have that
'berlagak' look.. ceyy.. But still they said, once they get to know me all the perception change... :).. It is not easy to interpret people just by looking at their face, but you have to take into account the behavior as well as the mental processes.. This is how our mental framework works.. There are so many school of thought, but the combination of all will lead to the answer.. We can't interpret someone just by looking at their behavior, the way they process their thinking also important.. I enjoyed myself observing people and making my own judgement base on what I learned.. ehehe..
Friends play a minor role in our life, there are important though. Friendship can be interpreted in so many ways. I learned about friendship even in my psychology classes.
I wonder about me and my friendships. I am a kind of person who appreciates my friends. Friends to me is number two after my family. Friendship is one of the most valuable thing in my life. As for me I couldn't find anyone yet whom I can share everything with. I keep on facing things that I don't want it to happen. I do have friends who cares and appreciate my presence but there are quite a number who destroy the meaning of friendship. What my mom told me just now makes me eager to post this entry. I have so many stories regarding this matter. Let me share some stories of mine. It is about me and some of my good friends.
A is a friend mine since I was in secondary school. We even go to the same University but different courses. She is one of my bestest friend, but everything change when she found Z. She used to told me that I am going to change if I have a boyfriend and I will forget totally about our friendship, but everything goes the other way round. I shared most of my private things with her. Only her I can really express what I felt, my ups and downs. Everything change a year back. She met Z and they become close, she totally forgot about me. She don't even bother to call or even to message. Every time I tried to call her, she will be with Z. I'm not jealous and I do not mind at all. She have the right to be with anybody that she want. The thing that strikes me the most is her attitude change in so many ways. I cares so much about her but it make me a little bit frustrated with her attitude. A few months back she started calling me back. She seems to have problem with Z. I did not put a straight face or ignore her calls. I comforted her and lend my ear for her to share about her problems like the old days. I did not have anything against her, she is still my good friend. She called me today and she said " Can we be like we used to be before and can u still accept me as your good friend " and I replied " I have never put an end to our friendship and you will still remain my friend no matter what" . I do not have anything against her. I am happy that she is still my good friend.
I, I knew her when I was in form 5. She's being transferred to my school. We became a good friend back then. We still keep in touch even after we finish form 5, until this one day. She called me, she said that she need to borrow some amount of money. I lend it to her and she promise to pay me back in one week time. I don't even bother to ask why, or what is the purpose of borrowing my money, because I put my trust in her and I think she is capable to pay it back. She is working, so maybe she need that money immediately and she will pay me back soon. That's what I thought. I met her a few times, but I'm not that kind of person who will urge my friend to ask about the money. I do not find it a proper behavior. Two, three weeks after that I tried to call her to ask her out, but she din't answer my call or even my messages. I wonder why. She quit her job and she remain shut till now. One thing for sure she is still alive. I can confirm that from her my space. Updated!... *giggles
B, I knew her during the orientation week in UIA. She is very loud, soft hearted, kind and sometimes hot tempered. We become much more closer because we have many class together and she is the only one that suit me in UIA at that time. We have some similarities. We spend most of our time together, I even brought her back to my house a few times. My family knows her quite well. Our friendship ends when I heard that she told bad things about me to my friends. The great thing was, most of my classmate can't stand her because of her attitude, but I did not find her that way. So when this kind of thing happen, whatever she does or she said people tend to hate her more and they told me every single thing that she said to them. I am quite upset but I accept it with an open mind. I did not confronted her or even yell at her. What I did was, I did not involve in anything involving her and I move on. Slowly our friendship tear apart. It is better to leave than to face more difficulties in future. I met her few days ago, we still manage to say HI to each other. No matter what happen she is a nice friend and I am proud to know her.
"A friend means well, even when she hurts you. But when an enemy puts her hand round your shoulder - watch out!"
- Proverbs 27:6
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