I have started doing a part time job in one of the place so called the
"3rd place". I enjoy myself working there. I only work during the weekends. Study come 1st rite and i'm doing it just for the sake of having my own way of wasting my time during the weekends
*hehe. Being a psychology student you tend to have a habit of observing people, from what they wear , their personality, action and etc. This is mostly what I did in my case studies. This is my first working experience and I tend to realize being in an organization you will meat several kinds of people that really can make your life miserable. Such are :
-They can be so nice to you but when you are not around they started talking about you
- There are also some who are good in musking, put their smiling faces and act as if they cares but they don't !
- When you tell them something, they will twist your stories around
- There will be someone who become the spy for everything
I know all these thing are not new, but I don't expect it to happen in that kind of place. All of us there are big, wise enough and we have our own mind and intellect to judge whether we are doing something good or bad. This is where the nurturing part comes. It is because they are so use to that kind of action and there is no one to say that what they are doing is something wrong. We are all equal and there is no such thing as competition. We are not working in a formal organization. Its true now a days everything has been commercialized, but when some of the partners acting this way they will not be paid extra, you still have the same pay check as mine. So what is the advantages of doing such thing. Maybe they are competing for becoming the 'favorite'
*euww..There are some who can be so close to you but end up back stabbing you. This is something sad to think about. Why these kind of things should happen?.
We can't blame the nurture or event the nature. From the Islamic point of view we know that we are born with fitrah. We are born to be good and Allah create us in different way compared to His other creatures, but some how rather we did not use the special gift that is our mind to think in what ever action that we does. We tend to take what ever that been given to us for granted.
I also have some wonderful memories to share. One of my favorite is when my customers complimented my service, return my greeting warmly and best of all when my store manager pat me on my shoulder for my good work. I enjoy seeing my customers come back and looking for me to serve them. Its also interesting to see all kinds of behavior that been showed by the customers. They are some who can be so nice to you and they are some who just throw their money without even looking at your face.
thats how life goes rite?..
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